There are several tell-tale signs. Look out for some of these:
1. Your ex wants you back if without any encouragement from you, he begins to communicate with you frequently. You are getting regular phone calls, text messages and emails.
2. Your ex wants you back if he lingers on the telephone and you find that you are always the one who has to bring the conversations to a close.
3. Your ex wants you back if he always calls you sweet names like honey, darling and baby.
4. Your ex wants you back if during any conversation he repeats your name over and over again as if he is getting some relief by being able to say it.
5. Your ex wants you back when he is forever asking you how you are and what is happening in your life.
6. Your ex wants you back when he is always probing into how much you are seeing other people and questioning who ’so and so’ is to you.
7. Your ex wants you back when he keeps talking about himself and giving you anecdotes from his everyday life.
8. Your ex wants you back if he insists on telling you about personal improvement programs he has joined. This could include therapy, life coaching, part time courses, gym, A.A, etc.
9. Your ex wants you back if he begins cultivating interests that he knows interest you. For example, if you love to cook, you’ll notice that he wants to share recipes from the new cooking magazine he has subscribed to.
10. Your ex wants you back if he keeps telling you about his efforts to get a better job and earn more money.
11. Your ex wants you back when you are the first person to know he has got a better job or earns more money.
12. Your ex wants you back when he seeks your advice or opinion before he makes a major decision.
13. Your ex wants you back when he drives his brand new car straight from the showroom to your house for you to see.
14. Your ex wants you back if your best friend tells you she keeps running into him and he asks her a million and one questions about you, especially about your movements and who you are seeing.
15. Your ex wants you back if he seems to show up everywhere you go. Same parties, clubs and hang out joints, etc. He’s always there.
16. Your ex wants you back if every time you see him he looks really great. He is obviously paying extra attention to his personal style and appearance.
17. Your ex wants you back if his comments are not on how well you look but rather how good or beautiful you look.
18. Your ex wants you back when a drop-dead gorgeous beauty is sitting alone at the bar but he doesn’t even notice because he’s too busy stealing glances in your direction.
19. Your ex wants you back if he makes a lot of effort to get you alone so that he can have private talks with you.
20. Your ex wants you back when he reaches for your hand, puts his arm around you or seeks other ways to get physical contact with you.
21. Your ex wants you back when he admits where he went wrong in your relationship and tells you how he has changed.
22. Your ex wants you back when he can’t emphasise enough how much he misses you.
23. Your ex wants you back when he looks you straight in the eye and tells you he still loves you.
24. Your ex wants you back when says “Babes, I really want you back”.
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