Body language that suggests all he wants is sex

• Posted on June 8, 2015
• by Nana Kwesi Coomson
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A true gentleman is hard to find, especially when you’re young. There are plenty of guys who seem like perfect mates, but that’s only because they’re pretending to be interested in you for your personality, when all they’re really interested in sex. If you’re not sure where your man stands, here are a few body language signals that suggest he’s only looking for sex:

1. He Looks at Your Cleavage, Not Your Eyes

When your man talks to you, does he #look you in the eyes or is his glance a little further down? It’s natural for straight boys to peek at your cleavage, but if your #guy respects you, that won’t be where he’s looking for the whole night, especially when you’re trying to tell him something important.

2. He Stares at Other Girls in Front of You

It’s fine for him to glance at a pretty #girl that passes by or if he looks at your waitress for a second too long. However, if you notice his #eyes wander every single time that a female passes by, that’s a problem. If he graduates from using inappropriate body language to actually making crude comments about those women, then it’s time to leave.

3. He Touches You Sexually Instead of Sweetly

What your #man doesn’t do is just as important as what he does do. Does he hold your hand when you’re watching a movie together or does he always try to touch you between your thighs? Does he ever give you sweet kisses on the cheek, or does he only give you French kisses with way too much tongue?

4. He Always Stands a Bit Too Close

It’s normal for him to get close to you on the dance floor or when you’re alone together on the couch. However, if he’s always on top of you when you’re in public, or even worse, around your parents, then he’s way too focused on the physical aspect of your #relationship.

5. He Gropes You Whenever He Can

How long into the make out session does it take him to feel you up? If he starts grabbing your chest as soon as you lock lips, then he’s eager to get to the bedroom.

6. He Always Has a Bulge in His Pants

This one is the most obvious. When you’re with your #man, does he always have a bulge in his pants? Most of the time, you can view it as a #compliment. But if the bulge is there while he’s consoling you as you cry or while you’re talking about a wart you had removed at the doctor, he’s probably paying less attention to your #words and more attention to your looks.

7. The Way He Touches You Makes You Uncomfortable

It doesn’t matter if he puts his hands on your upper thigh or if he just touches your shoulder–if you’re uncomfortable about being touched, then he shouldn’t lay his hands on you. No exceptions. If a guy doesn’t understand personal boundaries, then there’s no reason for you to spend any more of your #time with him.

Sometimes, you have to ignore the words a guy is saying and pay attention to his body language. It’s easy for him to lie with his mouth, but it’s harder for him to deceive you with the rest of his #body. What other body language do you associate with an overly sexual guy?

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Feel Sad about Not Having a BF Yet

Do you feel you’re being left behind, and that all your girlfriends have a boyfriend? Does it feel like you’re the only girl in school or #college without a boyfriend? Don’t be sad about being single; there’s nothing wrong with it. If anyone teases you, ignore them. There’s nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend yet, and here’s why

1. Being Single is Fine – Honestly!

Girls often feel there must be something wrong with them if they haven’t had a #boyfriend yet. But it really is nothing wrong with you. It just means that you haven’t met someone you’re interested in yet. The #time will come. Being single is absolutely fine, so enjoy it, and don’t worry that there’s something wrong with you.

2. It’s Not a Race

But all my friends have a #boyfriend! Well, this isn’t a race, and you haven’t been left behind. They haven’t beaten you, and they’re not better than you just because they have #boyfriends. You don’t have to catch up with them, and you don’t have anything to prove. You don’t have to try to beat anyone to the end, either. Go at your own pace, and don’t worry about what anyone else is doing.

3. Wait to Date the Right Guy

Being in a hurry to bag a #boyfriend can mean that you end up dating someone you’re not really that interested in. That’s not fair on him, and isn’t right for you. It’s worth waiting instead for the right #guy, so that you’re dating someone you really like. Don’t waste your #time on the wrong one.

4. Having a Boyfriend Isn’t All That

I used to feel that there was something wrong with me because I didn’t have a boyfriend by the #time I was 16. But now I can #look back and see that there wasn’t anything wrong with me. I can also see that I wasn’t missing out on anything other than trying to boast to my peers. Once you’ve had #boyfriends, you realise that it’s not all that, and that sometimes they’re downright annoying!

5. People Can Lie about Having a Boyfriend

So you think that everyone at school has a #boyfriend. But do you know that for a fact? Sometimes girls lie and make out they are dating, because they want #people to think they’re attractive to boys. Girls can be quite competitive, but may also see their value in their #attraction to boys.

6. You Can Please Yourself and do What You Want

Being single is actually a pretty good deal. You don’t have to think about someone else, and can just do what you want when you want. You have more free time for hobbies and sports, or whatever you like to do. You can spend #time with your friends. Nobody gets jealous of what else you have going on in your life and demands that they be your no. 1 priority.

7. When the Time is Right

Try to relax about not having a boyfriend, and don’t be desperate. That’s really not attractive, and risks you ending up dating someone who won’t treat you well. Guys can smell desperation, believe me – and some of them will happily take advantage of it. It’s better to have no #boyfriend than one who just wants to use you.

Have you been teased about not having a boyfriend?