17 signs he wants to be left alone

• Posted on December 7, 2015
• by Nana Kwesi Coomson
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It doesn’t matter how hard you try to get your crush to like you or to get your boyfriend to open up to you.

If he doesn’t want to treat you right, then he won’t.

Here are a few signs that he just wants to be left alone, because he doesn’t like you as much as you think:

1.He sends one word texts

If he responds to your long messages with one word, then he probably isn’t in the mood to talk.

2. Won’t respond to your texts

The only thing worse than a one-word message is no message.

If he doesn’t want to talk to you, then he won’t even bother typing out a response.

3. He has headphones in his ears

If he has headphones on, and won’t take them off when you try to talk, then he doesn’t want to hear what you have to say.

He just wants to drown everyone out.

4. He ignores you to talk to others

If he won’t talk to you, but he’s talking to everyone around you, he doesn’t want to be left alone entirely.

He just wants you to leave him alone.

5. He has a rude tone

You can learn more about a man by listening to the tone of his voice than the actual #words he’s using.

If he sounds annoyed, then he probably is.

6. He avoids eye contact

If he won’t #look at you, but keeps glancing at the door, it’s because he wants to leave.

He’s hoping you’ll get the hint.

7. He faces away from you

Body language can tell you a lot. If he’s facing away from you, then you aren’t his main focus.

His main focus is whatever his #body is pointed toward.

8. He’s not listening to you

If he isn’t absorbing anything you’re saying, and is just nodding his head as you speak, he doesn’t want to be bothered.

9. He says he wants to be alone

There isn’t a secret message behind this phrase.

If he says he wants to be left alone, he means it.

10. He leaves whenever you come in

If he leaves the room as soon as you enter it, then he doesn’t want to interact with you.

He’s trying to keep his distance.

11. He refuses to make plans

If he won’t make any plans with you, then he doesn’t want to hang out with you. It’s as simple as that.

12. He locks the door

If he locks his door, so that you’re unable to enter, it’s clear that he wants to be left alone.

Otherwise, he would’ve left it wide open.

13. He ditches you

If you had plans with him, but he never shows up, then he doesn’t want to see you.

He’s letting you know it in the rudest way possible.

14. He shows no emotion

If he never shows any emotions around you, then he probably doesn’t care about you as much as you’d hope.

15. He “forgets” your plans

No one forgets about the plans they had with someone they care about.

16. He makes excuses

If his excuses make zero sense, he’s lying. He’s using whatever excuses he can to get out of a conversation.

17. He’s mean to you

At the end of the day, if he makes you feel bad about yourself, you don’t need him.

There’s no reason for him to be mean, even when he wants to be left alone.

If a man does any of these things to you on a daily basis, don’t waste your time with him.

Are you being treated poorly by your boyfriend or #crush?